Maybe we should be talking about people and not MEN/WOMEN or men/women in some sort of classification scheme that separates each individual into a stereotypical "they"; who are then concluded to like this but not that or be offended by this but not that or (the worst prejudice of all) being selectively offensive! Selective offense is when something disrespectful that is considered very offensive conduct generally is purported to be only offensive when manifested outside an "entitled group"; said group may manifest the same conduct or illustrative expression within that group not only with impunity but as a defining attribute!
The idea that naked, nearly naked or even only highly suggestive illustrations or conduct is part and parcel of the "sport biker world" and should be allowed or expected to pervade all venues within that social group is just plain silly, immature and prejudicial conduct, IMO. It is the attitude cultured (at personal risk if ignored) in Jr High male locker rooms all around the USA.
Is it testosterone related? Perhaps so. Does that mean it cannot be "controlled" or relegated to socially acceptable forms of expression? I don't think so. The Hulk cannot control or channel his physical gifts; Superman has no problem doing just that. Peeps who cannot meet the societal allowances for expression of sexuality in extreme cases are deemed criminals or ill or even psychotic with the result being a bad outcome for all.
I agree with Kofla, if I understand him correctly; relegation or control of this kind of expression could and should be accomplished by restricting such illustration and expression to a thread or two (maybe three) LOL. In that way, it can serve its own purpose and any one who feels the need of a "hit" can go there for his or her own expression.
Inclusion of such expression in personal avatar is one way that the entire forum becomes objectionable to those with differing sensibilities and who are more easily offended. Does that make the forum a more welcome or a less welcome place to the very group you lament because of its non-representation?? Think about it. Some one asked if "you" would like to see naked male illustrations "in your face", so to speak, everywhere you looked on what is ostensibly a forum of ZX14 enthusiasts? Well, would you?
I don't care in the least for pornography of any form. I'm so "prudish" as to frown on public displays of affection between any two people of any sex as a general form of conduct. But that's just me and I respect a different opinion. Certainly, open sexual conduct is offensive to most people in our human society; while it is quite the norm in the primate enclosures of any zoo!
If you want people of the female gender to participate in this forum without feeling threatened or insulted, then you will restrict the expressions under discussion to specific threads and show some consideration for offending people with the illustrations in your avatar. Otherwise, I believe you will "put off" most females with an interest in or ownership of a ZX14 or any other sport bike.
Did you know or are you aware of the higher testosterone levels in "highly sexed" males or females? Or are you knowledgeable of the role testosterone plays in human sexuality for both sexes even at normal range levels and periodic variations? Do you honestly believe that a sport bike forum is an outlet for these needs?
I ask these questions because this topic keeps coming up and I don't believe that the root of the question has been properly considered.
In short (I know, its too late to be short, LOL), is this a forum for Hulks or for Supermen and for Superwomen? Either find a generally socially acceptable limited space for such expression or decide to let the whole forum become that place and risk driving many away. More accurately, I believe that there are more than a few peeps out there who do not participate in this forum actively for this very reason and we are not so much driving them away as we are keeping them from entering. Consider that. And consider that ladies are likely to manifest objections to female focussed "pornography" by exactly that option.
I simply don't go to the threads devoted to "pornography" as I have no interest in the offerings there and find the information and commradeire in the other threads. I also don't need the "pornography" to remind me why I ride this bike!
Just my 2 cents and not aimed at anyone and not intended to offend anyone.
Cheers!
* Last updated by: PaulAB on 3/17/2014 @ 9:35 AM *
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